Personal Dating Coach Services

Want your pick of smart and sexy women?

I thought so.

You want to attract beautiful, smart and sweet women naturally, without faking it or using sleazy tactics.

You want to connect with women easily through your online presence, messages and phone calls.

You want to be great at dating, charming in conversation and
buttery smooth at seduction.

You want to be more comfortable, capable and confident with women.

You want to bring more and higher calibre women into your love life.

I hear you, man.

See, I used to be in your shoes. I thought that I didn't have much luck with women. I'd see my buddies score hot women, seemingly effortlessly. But no matter what I did, I couldn't replicate their successes. In fact, I pretty much had no success with women, at all. But then I realized...

Luck has nothing to do with your success with women and dating. 

Being great with women and dating is ALL about how you understand women, your interpersonal skills and your sexual experience. These are what really set you apart from other guys and make you truly desirable; a man that women feel naturally and powerfully attracted to.

So, instead of waiting for lady luck to land in my lap, I focused on developing my skills and experience with women and became really good at it, like James Bond good. By learning and doing, I went from unlovable loser to legendary lover.

I learned that any guy can have the same amazing results with women by simply knowing what to do and how to do it.  So naturally, I began coaching men on the best and quickest ways to accelerate their skills and success with women, consistently and reliably. Since 2007, I've helped transform the love lives of hundreds of men all over the world through professional date coaching. And I'm delighted to share the very best of all this experience with you through DateSchool's Personal Dating Coach Services.

Gain confidence. Get women. Be legendary.

What is DateSchool's Personal Dating Coach Service?

  • Your personal dating coach - just a phonecall away

    Through a series of one-hour telephone coaching sessions, we’ll bring you personalized advice and guidance as you need it and at your convenience. On these calls you will:

    • Ask dating questions and get informed answers and advice.
    • Discuss your dating experiences and debrief with an experienced dating coach.
    • Get honest feedback and helpful examples and techniques to reach your next level of success.
    • Use video calls so we can help you work on your appearance and body language.
  • Your personalized coaching plan

    We’ll help accelerate your dating success by mapping out the learning, skills development and dating experiences that are unique to you and your dating goals.

    1. Your coaching program starts with a free ‘road map’ consultation and coaching plan, that defines where you are now, where you want to go and how you’ll get there.
    2. We’ll then teach you the key concepts and skills that are essential to being successful with women and dating. We’ll work on your personal strengths and weaknesses too.
    3. We’ll coach you through new and amazing experiences with women and dating, for real. And, we’ll be on hand to debrief with you and give you honest feedback and practical advice to grow from and continuously refine your skills.
  • Direct email support

    You can email me directly between coaching calls with any questions that can’t wait until we next speak. In fact I actively encourage all of my clients to do this in order to make the most of their coaching experience and accelerate their results.

    You’ll also be given full 24/7 access to the DateSchool Members’ Area. This online resource is a goldmine of dating wisdom with dozens of pages of key concepts, exercises and checklists on attraction, relationships and female psychology. This is a special introductory bonus which I’m offering for free to my coaching clients for a limited time only.

Through DateSchool, you'll have all of the information and step-by-step, personalized guidance that you need to reach your next level of performance and success with women. We'll also keep you focused and motivated while pushing you to your full dating potential, so that you'll see great results fast. You'll be amazed by how quickly your love life improves with this personalized dating coach program.

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I just want to say THANK YOU. I still can't believe how easy it is to attract the ladies. It's a completely different ball game when you actually know what you are doing.

- Mike, Columbus

The way you break the steps and information down is intuitive, and makes it easy to put into practice.

- Adam, Maine

Dates are better now that I know what to do. I'm getting to know the girls I date better, because I'm less up in my own head all of the time.

- Geoff, Waterloo

I'm so glad I found DateSchool. It has been life-changing and keeps getting (and making me) better.

- Ellis, New York City

Just Imagine...

Imagine women you've just met feeling naturally attracted to you; at a bar, at work or even at the bus stop.

Imagine feeling relaxed on dates and truly getting to enjoy the company of the women you're with.

Imagine building strong and powerful connections with women - the kind that make you stand out as a soulmate.

Imagine communicating sexually with women, without saying a word and without anyone else around you knowing what's going on.

You ain't dreaming.

This is your new reality, if you choose to make it so...

An incredible love life can easily be yours because DateSchool will show you exactly how to achieve it.

  • It’s time to stop watching beautiful women pass you by and instead, start meeting and dating these women.
  • It’s time to stop wondering whether or not she's into you and instead, start believing she is and doing something about it.
  • It’s time to stop wasting time scrambling for half-baked relationship advice and instead, start working through step-by-step guidance with someone who knows what he's talking about.
  • It's time to stop spending days, months and years alone and instead, start meeting and dating amazing women, today.

Be your own hero.

With DateSchool you'll soon have skills and experiences with women that other guys can only dream about. So let's start making this real for you right now…

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What other DateSchool clients are saying...

Holy shit! It all makes so much sense and is so much easier now. It's like cheating, it's almost unfair.

- Richard, Boston

There are so many guys out there that need to know the stuff you teach. I was one of the most in need and I only wish that I'd found your site sooner.

- Peter, Vancouver

I understand how to communicate with women in a different way than before. It’s like a different level.

- Kenny, Huntsville

I never used to be confident enough to get a girl's number in a bar. In the past week I got two in one night!

- Duncan, Manchester

What you'll learn

Through your coaching sessions, we'll turn you into a smooth operator with women, no matter where your starting point is. We specialize in building your knowledge, skills and experience in these areas:

1. Understanding Women and Dating - The Fundamentals

  • The traits that all women are naturally attracted to
  • How to attract beautiful women and NOT turn them off
  • How to tell if she's interested in you
  • How to connect with women - deeply and emotionally
  • How to seduce women - simple steps that all guys should know

2. How to Meet Women

  • How to meet women online with a profile and messages that they will respond to
  • How to attract and meet women through your friends, work and communities
  • How to spontaneously approach and meet women in bars, clubs, coffee shops, bus stops, or anywhere!
  • How to ask her out and get her number (and how not to)

3. Calling and Messaging

  • When to call and when to text or email
  • Messages that ALWAYS get responses
  • How to amplify attraction and connection over the phone

4. How to Date (Really) Well

  • How to have legendary dates with women - awesome and lame date ideas
  • How to date multiple women simultaneously - openly and honestly
  • How to quickly build strong attraction and a deep connection on a date
  • How to seduce women - the transition from date to sex
  • What good bedside manners look like - classy sexual etiquette that always impresses

5. Maintaining Healthy Relationships

  • How to keep things fresh, fun and interesting
  • How to get exactly what you want out of a relationship
  • How to manage frustration and/or jealously
  • How to deal with arguments, make-ups and break-ups

6. Sexual and Playful Communication Skills

  • How to communicate sexual intent and sexual confidence without saying a word
  • How to flirt and banter playfully with women
  • How to accelerate attraction, connection and seduction through eye contact and touch

How you'll learn

A personal dating coach program and plan that's as unique as you are.


We don't assume that you're like every other guy out there. You're not. Who you are and what you're looking for with women and dating are completely unique to you. That's why our personal dating coaching services are tailored to each and every one of our clients. Our services are based on the client's specific goals, preferences, personal strengths and weaknesses.

  • Your Goals

    Not everyone has the same goals in dating. Whether it’s more sex, more love or more confidence with women in general, we’ll create a plan that gets you the results and experiences that you’ve always dreamed about.

  • Your Preferences

    We learn about and work with your personal preferences and style to develop a personalized plan that fits you like a glove. Don’t worry, we don’t want to turn you into someone you’re not, and we won’t impose plans that don’t suit you and your needs.

  • Your Strengths and Weaknesses

    We work to accentuate the positive and build on the attractive qualities that you already have. We’ll show you how to make the most of your naturally attractive qualities and make women notice you and want you all the more as a result. At the same time, we’ll also help you smash through any insecurities and inhibitions which stand in the way of your success with women.

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Want even more?

These four sweet bonuses are included too. Tasty.

  • 1

    Roadmap Consultation Session (Value $147)

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll never get there. That's why your first bonus is a detailed 45-minute consultation session to understand your goals, preferences and current challenges with women and dating. We call this our "roadmap" consultation because it helps us to understand where you are, where you want to go and how you prefer to get there. Imagine having someone spell out how you can become your most successful self with women? That's exactly what this is.

  • 2

    Personal Coaching Plan (Value $147)

    Based on your roadmap consultation, we'll create a personalized coaching plan designed just for you.This will lay out everything that you need to learn and do, step-by-step, in order to achieve your unique dating goals.
    Your coaching plan includes:
    - Information and concepts that will help you to understand core aspects of dating
    - A tailored program of exercises and drills that you'll do to build the skills and achieve your goals
    - A personalized list of experiences for you to practice your dating skills and become more experienced and confident with women
    We'll use your coaching plan to structure and direct your coaching sessions so that we can keep you on track, motivated and help you to quickly and easily reach your dating goals.

  • 3

    3. Access to the DateSchool Members' Area (Value $348/year)

    The Members' Area is a goldmine of dating knowledge and tips that's available for a limited time to DateSchool coaching clients. It's packed with all of the information that you'll need to understand women and dating from a completely new and powerful perspective. Think of it like upgrading your mental operating system to prepare you for the next level of performance and success with women. This amazing resource will help you to develop your dating knowledge and skills between coaching calls, so that you can really make the most of each and every coaching session. You'll receive immediate access to this amazing resource and you'll be able to access this area 24/7, even from your mobile device. What's more, the DateSchool Members' Area will be updated regularly with new information and advice. You'll never have to pay a dollar for any of those updates and you'll get all of the extras that come with it.

  • 4

    4. The DateSchool Natural Attraction Masterclass (Value $97)

    Your ability to build attraction quickly, easily and naturally with women is what will set you apart from other guys. This class is the bible of attraction and a complete, practical course on building attraction and becoming your most attractive. It will show you how attraction works and teach you how to attract the attention and affection of beautiful women everywhere.
    It will help take you from beginner to mastery level through topics like:
    - How attraction is a natural and instinctive process
    - The qualities and traits that women are naturally attracted to in men
    - How to become your most naturally attractive to women
    - The (many) ways that guys commonly turn women off (without even realizing it) and how to avoid them
    - Exercises and drills you can do daily to improve things like your body language, sense of humour, emotional intelligence and other qualities that make you become increasingly more attractive to women
    The concepts and exercises in this course are a core reference and practical guide for all DateSchool clients. You'll use the information in many ways too; like having an attractive online profile, making an attractive first impression on a date and maintaining attraction throughout your relationships.

Is personal dating coaching right for me?

This service is for you if:

  • You're successful in other aspects of your life, but being with a great woman or having a fulfilling love life is still the missing piece for you.
  • You want to become much better at bringing more and higher calibre women into your life but you don't know where to start.
  • You just don't get women or dating; other guys seem to be more successful than you and you don't know why.
  • You want to learn more about women and dating and you’re happy to make the time and effort to go out and do this.
  • You want to be able to communicate smoothly, comfortably, non-verbally and sexually with women, and you’re ready to try out new techniques and methods.

"If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got."

- Albert Einstein

This service is not for you if:

  • You want to know the perfect pick-up lines that make women instantly want to sleep with you. Good luck with that.
  • You want to know how to manipulate or hypnotize women. Eeek.
  • You want to be great with women, but you don't want to leave the couch. Get outta here!

"Knowing is not enough. We must apply. 

Willing is not enough. We must do."

- Bruce Lee

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Still have questions?

  • What experience do you have as a personal dating coach?

    As an amateur (and somewhat hopeless) lover of women, I spent 10 years fumbling my way around women, screwing up all the time and learning most of my lessons the hard way. But I stuck at it and learned from any source that I could get my paws on – books, DVDs, articles, blogs. Eventually I landed my own group of pick-up coaches who became my best friends. And then my peeps, I got good with women, like James Bond good. Since then, I’ve never looked back…unless parallel parking. Professionally I’ve spent nearly 9 years working as a dating coach, working with groups and private clients on their dating needs and goals to meet great women. Before that I worked as an executive coach and skills training program designer. All this to say you’re in good hands, my friend. Strap on your seat belt and get ready to go from average guy to legendary lover in no time.

  • When can I schedule my coaching sessions?

    To accommodate busy working lives, coaching appointments are arranged outside of normal office hours. Appointments are arranged between 4:30 p.m. – 9 p.m. CT (Mon-Fri) and 11:30 a.m. – 4 p.m. CT on Saturdays. I’m also flexible about arranging calls outside of these hours for international clients. Sessions last around an hour and are recorded for you to to re-listen and learn from.  Recordings are sent to you within one to two days. You can also email me directly between sessions, which I strongly encourage you to if you’ve any questions that you want answered between coaching calls. I aim to answer all emails within the same day, but emails that require a longer answer might take a little longer to respond to.

  • How much does having a personalized date coach cost and what guarantees do you offer?

    Coaching services are offered in two different packages, Basic and Intensive. Basic ($297/month) – 2 sessions per month. This is an entry level plan aimed at those who are short of cash or time to commit to improving this area of their lives. Intensive ($397/month)- 4 sessions per month. This coaching plan offers twice the number of sessions per month as the basic plan and delivers faster results. With this package you also get one extra coaching session per month for free. Whichever option you choose, if you aren’t completely satisfied within 14 days of joining, we’ll refund you the full amount that you paid. We deliberately want to make this a risk-free decision for you, so that you can focus on learning, skill-building and changing your life forever for the better.

  • Can anyone be successful with women and dating?

    Yes, they really can. I’ve worked with clients of all levels of ability. Generally a lot of guys are pretty clueless when it comes to women and dating. There’s so much that they don’t know and plenty of pitfalls that could be easily avoided if only they knew how. The reality is that it’s easy to make vast improvements to your love life with a little more understanding, skill building and a few lifestyle changes. I’ve found that regardless of your starting point, your passion and commitment will be the biggest determinant of how good you’ll get and how fast. If you really want this and aren’t afraid to work at further developing yourself, then the world is your oyster, my friend.

  • How much of my own time and effort will I need to invest?

    The exact amount of time that you’ll commit depends on what your goals are, but you should expect to spend between 2-3 hours a week doing skill-building exercises and drills. Outside of that, you’ll want to make yourself available for 1-2 dates per a week and 1-2 hours phoning and messaging the women you are dating.

  • How long will it take me to become amazing with women?

    Most clients report that women are showing more interest within the first 2 weeks. The changes in your body language, confidence and overall attractiveness will be quick to take effect. What’s more, these changes are permanent. You can’t unlearn how to become naturally attractive, nor would you want to. You’ll start seeing women and men alike paying you more attention and respect across your work and social life too. But attractiveness is just the beginning of your journey. In 2-3 months time, most clients are consistently dating smarter, sexier and better women than they did before. Game. Changer. Within 6 months, ALL of my clients have achieved either: 1)  Absolute choice and control in their dating life;  or 2) They’re dating someone that they’d be happy to spend the rest of their life with. Some have done this even when I haven’t coached them for the full 6 months. In other words, they’ve taken what they’ve learned from our personalized dating coach services here at DateSchool in 2-3 months and then kept practicing and growing their skills and experience.

  • Is DateSchool ethical?

    At DateSchool, we take pride in a having a strong code of honor which is the foundation for all of our methods, advice and guidance. You can find out more about this on our About page. Our methods work. They’re legit and they aren’t manipulative, creepy or douche-baggy in any way. Instead our approach works naturally and harmoniously with the basic sexual tendencies and urges which are innate in all of us. We’re all about helping you become the best version of yourself that you can be so that you can have the most success ever with women. It’s really that simple. Taking this approach sets us apart from a lot of the half-baked relationship advice and misogynist nonsense that plagues the internet. We strive to truly change the love lives of our clients for the better, in a profound, honest and decent way.

Take control of your love life. Start right now.

  • 2 x 1hr (one-on-one) Phone / Video Coaching Sessions per Month
  • Complete Audio Recordings for all Coaching Sessions
  • Roadmap Consultation Session and Personalized Coaching Plan
  • Access to the DateSchool Members' Area
  • Access to the Natural Attraction Masterclass
  • 4 x 1hr (one-on-one) Phone / Video Coaching Sessions per Month
  • Complete Audio Recordings for all Coaching Sessions
  • Roadmap Consultation Session and Personalized Coaching Plan
  • Access to the DateSchool Members' Area
  • Access to the Natural Attraction Masterclass
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14-day money-back guarantee

If for any reason you aren’t completely satisfied with DateSchool Coaching Services, just let us know within your first two weeks and we’ll completely refund your money, no monkey-business.

DateSchool is 100% risk-free, baby!