I teach smart, shy guys how to meet and date awesome women.
Hi I'm Rick, new-school romantic, founder of DateSchool and all round good-guy.
For the past 9 years, I've coached nice guys in the art and science of attracting awesome women.
I started DateSchool in 2014 because there was way too much (and a yet growing amount of) WOEFULLY AWFUL dating advice on the internet, which does not help and probably even harms your prospects with women. I simply wanted to cut through that shit like a Hattori Hanzo.
Through DateSchool, I live to serve nerdy but decent guys like me by helping them get to the good times quickly and easily, without wasting time, effort or heartache. Yup, you're welcome.
But I wasn't always this way. My humble beginnings were full of stumble and fumble...
When I went to college I had one real mission and it wasn't really the degree (sorry mom). It was to (finally) score a few notches on my bed-post.
I majored in Psychology and I read and watched EVERYTHING ever published on the topic of relationships, rapport, body language and pick up. The first thing I learned was there THERE IS SO MUCH DROSS DATING ADVICE OUT THERE. And infinitely even more now.
Nevertheless I focused my turbo-charged noggin on dredging through the materials and began to make some headway.
The results came slowly at first and not quite in the way that I expected them.
I became AMAZING at building rapport. I became the kind of guy that anyone could talk to, confide in and have a really good laugh with. Many years later I'd discover that the first relationship building skill I built was the ability to establish CONNECTION, but not attraction.
The net effect this had on my love life was that the beautiful women that I had crushes on soon surrounded me, but as friends, not lovers.
It wasn't until a few years later that I learned two fundamental principles of relationship building which COMPLETELY TRANSFORMED my levels of success with women:
- The power of ATTRACTION in making women naturally gravitate to me and desire me
- To always start any relationship with a woman I like, by building Attraction BEFORE Connection, so that I always became a woman's first choice as a partner and never once again ended up in the friend zone.
Game changer. I say again, game fucking changer.
All of those amazing social skills that I'd built up in the years before were now being fully harnessed through the power of attraction to build extremely strong sexual relationships with women at frightening speed.
Within the next decade I racked up 10x the average number of sexual partners that normal guys do in a lifetime. And most of these were quality relationships with truly breathtaking women, outstanding in terms of their beauty, intelligence, kindness, fun, and all kinds of delightful combinations thereof.
With this new-found skills breakthrough and love-life liberation, I had to share it with my friends and family and basically any guy that would listen, so that they too could benefit. About 9 years ago I started professionally training men in dating and interpersonal skills and I've never looked back.
And what's the first thing that I teach my students and clients who are looking to improve their skills and results with women? You guessed it, the power of attraction (as an wonderful natural bond) and the skills and know-how to build attraction quickly.